It has been such roller coaster ride for the past 6 or 7 months. Sometimes glad, sometimes a little too overwhelming. Overall, i opened up for the big change. soon realized, it wouldn't be enough if i am alone open for change, it has to be both of us open to change our lifestyle and lives together.
Hope he understands that soon. If he understands that soon, all hurtful comments of me being childish, immature, bossy, mean and not smart will be soon forgotten.
Monday, July 6, 2009
Liking qualities of a person against liking the person on a whole..
I wonder why people would ask "What do you like in me?". Is it necessary to like specific qualities of a person, in order to like or love the person?
In my opinion, it may not be necessary. It may all be relative. If you love the person, you may like even the weirdest of the qualities which you otherwise may not appreciate. And if you don't like the person, even the most desirable quality of the person can be annoying.
So when he asks me to that i don't tell him what i like most in him, does it mean that i can't like him or love him without specifically mentioning what i like about him?
In my opinion, it may not be necessary. It may all be relative. If you love the person, you may like even the weirdest of the qualities which you otherwise may not appreciate. And if you don't like the person, even the most desirable quality of the person can be annoying.
So when he asks me to that i don't tell him what i like most in him, does it mean that i can't like him or love him without specifically mentioning what i like about him?
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